Total Living, The Revolutionary Lifestyle For Today’s Age And How To Implement It (Thread)

Oscar Lagrosen
3 min readJun 11, 2022

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The revolutionary lifestyle for thriving in today’s world:

Total Living

Read below to find out how Total Living will give you more

  • Mental clarity
  • Creativity
  • Happiness
  • Relief
  • Productivity
  • Accomplishments

And the 5 steps to becoming a total life enjoyer 👇

First, what is total living really?

A collection of best practices to enable your best self

You will always feel

  • Inner peace free from thoughts
  • Trust that whatever happens will fuel you to greatness
  • Accelerating speed and control of your results

How to get started:

Step 1: Total Presence

The mental state behind flow, happiness, meaning, charisma & peace

Everything is silent within you. You are totally connected with your surroundings

The other aspect is daydreaming and creativity, in full relaxation

How to access this state of mind:

To feel stillness and flow, do one of the 4 things:

  • Breathe (longer exhales if anxious)
  • Stare at one particular place
  • Close your eyes and listen
  • Feel your body sensations

Immediately, you will be present

To daydream, do nothing and it will happen by itself

Step 2: Personal Antifragility

The unstoppable mindset that transforms

  • Obstacles to opportunities
  • Negative to positive
  • Setbacks to catapults

To instill this mindset, learn the 9 core principles below. Repeat these when you are unhappy

Step 3: Daily awareness

Gain control of your life by offloading your commitments, desires and ideas to your

  • Calendar
  • Task Manager
  • Note-taking tool(s)

Using the barbell system, it is done superfast. No need for weekly reviews.

Learn more here: https://thetotalliving.com/2022/02/barbell-the-only-productivity-system-you-need-to-thrive-in-an-unpredictable-world/

Step 4: Free up time & energy

Thanks to the 80/20-rule, only a tiny fraction of what you do produces almost all of your results

You want to eliminate the other commitments and only focus on the vital few

To achieve this, ask the following 3 questions:

  • What is the 20% producing my intended results, impact and enjoyment?
  • What is the 20% responsible for most of my stress and unhappiness?
  • What is the one thing I can do, such as by doing it, everything else will become easier or unnecessary?

Here is what you can expect:

You will experience more relief when more is removed from your plate.

It feels like paying off debt, with increased positive repercussions.

Spend the newly found time relaxing to get energy back.

Now you are ready for the last step, start making impact:

Step 5: Create more and more impact and enjoyment

You need leverage for infinite results with minimum action from you

The 7 types of leverage are

  • Labor
  • Technology
  • Media (text, videos)
  • Capital
  • Knowledge
  • Reputation
  • Rules

Gain leverage in 3 stages:

Stage 1: Explore

In the beginning, you do not know what you are doing, and that’s ok!

Poke around, try things out, move forward and listen to feedback.

Failures and errors are your best friends here since they tell you what does not work

Practice in public

Stage 2: Optimize

Once you know how to perform a certain activity reasonably well, you want to eliminate the waste

Ask yourself the following:

  • Is this task and outcome important at all?
  • How can I get rid of as many steps as possible?
  • What hinders me from going faster?

Stage 3: Delegate

The results will be done without your involvement, by systems (automation) and/or people (hiring/outsourcing)

Infinite scale

Then continue this cycle of explore — optimize — delegate to increase your leverage, impact & success

All successful people do this

Here are the five steps of total living summarized:

1/ Become totally present

2/ Have the unstoppable mindset

3/ Get control of your days

4/ Free up time and energy

5/ Build more leverage and impact

Once you implemented 1–3 and continuously do 4–5, you are a total life enjoyer!

Thanks for reading!

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And if you want more guidance on step 3 (the Barbell System), I have written a 59-page e-book about it

You will know how to

  • Alternate between structure & playfulness
  • Set up your tools for max efficiency
  • Instill the journaling habit

And more:

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Oscar Lagrosen
Oscar Lagrosen

Written by Oscar Lagrosen

My articles are transcripts from my YouTube videos. Watch the original videos here: https://www.youtube.com/@oscar-lagrosen

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